Today, a year-old guy remembers what it felt like to touch a woman's breasts for the very first time The first time a guy touches breasts is a very important event in his life, like his first professional baseball game or his Bar Mitzvah. I was 15 years old when I first felt a woman's breast. As a freshman in high school, I had been dating T. We had made out a few times, and the chemistry was building.
Do women know when they're pressing their breasts against you?
Touching breasts while kissing - Relationship Advice - eNotAlone
Why do straight men devote so much headspace to those big, bulbous bags of fat drooping from women's chests? Scientists have never satisfactorily explained men's curious breast fixation, but theorists are gonna theorize. Mammary glands are a defining feature of mammals, but humans seem unique in granting mammaries a large sexual role. That's not to say interest in nipples is entirely unheard of elsewhere in the animal kingdom: In the book "Biological Exuberance: Animal Homosexuality and Natural Diversity" Stonewall Inn Editions, , Canadian biologist Bruce Bagemihl notes that a couple of primate species, including humanity's close relative the bonobo, have been seen stimulating their own nipples while masturbating.
However, there are men who love women without hair, even though that sounds weird. Guys tend to go out of their way to get a good look at breasts at any time. Some guys have a size preference when it comes to breasts, but there are those who do not care about that because they simply love breasts.
So however far you go, remember to keep the focus on her. Kiss her gently at first and very tentatively, use your tongue but only if she reciprocates your move. Pull back gently now and then and kiss her ears and her chin, slowly moving down towards her neck. If you ever feel like things are getting slow, or if both of you are getting extremely aggressive and her hands are moving a lot, you can kiss the inside of her elbows or her wrists. As surprising as it may seem, kissing the insides of her elbows can actually calm her down.